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Intimacy prompts for couples
Three gentle prompts, each with a few follow-ups, to help you talk openly and tenderly about sexual intimacy. Take your time. Be kind. Listen well.
Best sexual memory in the last year
What has been your favourite sexual experience with me in the past year, and what made it so special?
Follow-ups
- What feelings did it bring up for you?
- Would you want to recreate it or build on it somehow?
- Was there a moment during that experience that really stood out to you?
What you’d like to experience more of sexually
What’s something you’ve really enjoyed sexually that you’d like more of?
Follow-ups
- Is there something new or playful you’d like to try?
- Are there moments or types of touch you want more frequently?
- Are there specific moods or settings that help you feel more open or turned on?
Ways to improve our sex life
What’s one way we could enhance or evolve our sex life together?
Follow-ups
- Is there anything you’ve been hesitant to share that you’d like to explore?
- Would scheduling time for intimacy help, or do you prefer spontaneity?
- Are there things we could do outside the bedroom to deepen our sexual connection?
A note: there’s no rush. If a question feels too tender for tonight, set it aside and come back to it when you’re both ready.